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“Life is not a fist, life is an open hand waiting for another hand to come in.” Eli Wiesel

Some people may think that the answer to the question “We really should and everyone else” has already been answered earlier in the introduction, but I bet some people will defend their position and beat them and keep them by their side.

What does it mean to stand there with your hand open and wait for another hand to come in?

The first word or feeling that comes out of me is weakness.

The Merriam-Webster Dictionary defines vulnerability as “having the power or potential to be harmed or injured; open to moral attack or temptation”. I also hear the word weak in this definition.

DR. Brene Brown is a Vulnerability Researcher. In his amazing, down-to-earth, factual, excellent book Daring Greatly, Dr. Brown said

“The idea that weakness is the most widespread and dangerous myth. When we spend our lives chasing away and protecting ourselves from feelings of weakness, we let go of fear and our discomfort becomes judgment and criticism. The fundamental vulnerability of all emotions and feelings.”

Most of us associate weakness with dark things like fear, shame, sadness, and disappointment. What if we allowed ourselves to feel all emotions in their right place, space and time? Dr. Brown spent more than a decade researching this question and more and found this out

“Suffering is also home to the emotions and experiences we crave. It is the birthplace of love, substance, joy, courage, compassion, and creativity. It is the source of hope, answer, and truth. Failure is uncertainty and risk. and emotional exposure.”

“Courage is the most important of all virtues because without courage you cannot achieve any other virtue.” Maja Angelou

But why do we need each other? Why should you be weak in front of someone else? It’s the same thing that motivates each of us to become a better version of ourselves.

Here are a few thoughts on why mutual respect is so important:

1- Community: It may take one person to develop a plan or idea, but it takes many others to help implement and bring that plan or idea to life. Not every individual has all the answers. Although nowadays the answer to the question can easily be found via the Internet, everyone will understand that the person who published the information on the Internet put a lot of work on someone else to create the answer they are looking for. Before you know it, you have gathered a community or community of people to help you bring your idea or flight plan to fruition.

“Strength lies in differences, not in similarities”
Stephen R Covey

2- Account: how a coach gets his players to learn the game they play and the level they will reach; just as a life coach holds his client accountable for the plan he is working on, so others who play an important role in each of our lives are accountable and value their kindness and deeds. Think of every change you want to make in your life, or every time you want to get through a difficult time, and think of the people who help you change or achieve something. In the end, with the right questions and the only diligence you know, you won’t make it without the help of someone important in your life. A good example would be a surgeon or doctor who helps us get medical care when we need surgery or immediate medical care.

“The only way we can be successful as a team is not just to follow directions, but to hold each other accountable for our actions.”
AJ Darkholme, Rise of the Morning Star

3 – Competition: Most people thrive on competition. Think of the marathon runners every year who prepare, train, and focus so intensely on winning this tough race. Where’s the glory of winning when we’re up against ourselves? Where’s the fun in competition if we don’t have anyone to compete with?

“Have you ever longed for someone to like? Something you don’t look down on but can achieve?”
Rand’s name

4 – Achievement: You passed the toughest test! You have climbed the highest mountain in the world! You have won a Nobel Prize for your research or publication! Did you work so hard that you finally got your Ph.D.! feel free and incredibly overwhelmed by your accomplishments and have no one to celebrate with.

“There is nothing more beautiful in life
instead of celebrating talents, dreams
joy, and the achievement of another
to see the best in someone else – and to listen to them. “…
Kate Mullane Robertson

5 – Love: It is important to find reasons and fully believe those reasons to love ourselves first so that we can love others. However, it is also important for someone to love us first and teach us how to love so we know what it feels like and how to give it to others. Where would we be as a species without love? Love moves the world.

“If someone wonders where you are when you don’t come home at night is a great human need.”
Margaret Met

One of the first lessons I learned during the Coach Marketing training was that it will always be important to have your own coach, be it for specific reasons or in general. What is important is that you immerse yourself in the language and leadership process while overcoming your own hurdles to becoming what your clients want you to be: you have empathy, truth, experience, and hope. . There are teachers for almost every situation in life.

For example, there are teachers for teenagers, teachers for adults, teachers for life in general, teachers for relationships, leadership, Alzheimer’s, diabetes, ADHD, etc. and I have a manager. I could not have come close to my teaching experience without the help, guidance, and love of teachers, fellow students, and colleagues. All I needed was the courage not to let the work I wanted to complete begin to work its magic.

So I’m a life coach, career, heart, and soul. My satisfaction and purpose come from being able to take the jigsaw pieces of your life journey and help you put them together. help you create a life plan with stops along the way and appreciate all the beauty of everything you already have inside you. To help you achieve what you set out to do about your life goals, passions, and strengths. I challenge you to be as vulnerable as I am, to have the courage to face your life and make it what you want. Everyone needs a little help every now and then. That’s what I’m here for.

Why would you share your feelings with these people and face your worst fears? Well, because I’m wondering that and so I’ve been there myself where you are able to create a safe space where you can explore where you want to go; who you wanna be I want to go to those dark places faster so you know without a doubt that I am by your side and accompanying you on your journey.

“When you stand up and share your story in an empowering way, your story will heal you and your story will heal someone else.” Don’t miss Vanzant

Our life experiences are not unique to us. The reason we live is not only to teach ourselves important things but also to share so that someone else can learn too. As you journey, please note that I respect you in pursuing your goals and passions, and personal growth. Sharing your courage and vulnerability to stand up and influence others is a cause for celebration.

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Who is the most important person in your life? Why?

If you are uncomfortable with this person, how will the relationship benefit you?

When in your life do you decide to retire, to stand alone, nobody wants?

When did you realize that having someone by your side who brought you great success helped you?

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Credit ; Lisa Zaccagnini