Dear Single Lady,
Love is good but love is not everything.
Any sign you ignore today will come back as a full-blown manifestation to haunt you tomorrow!
It is possible to love a man that is not good for you.
He might be appropriate for your emotions now but end up not being adequate for your future later.
Don’t just love and forget yourself.
Check well. If you notice any of these four signs in him, then know that he is bad for marriage.
- HE ALWAYS GIVES THE EXCUSE THAT HE IS BUSY: Nobody is too busy. 🤷🏽♂️
If someone is truly important to you, you will find a way to create time for them.
It is really about priority.
Where your treasure is, that’s where your heart will be! ⭐
He doesn’t see you as his treasure.
If so, how can you choose a man like this for marriage?
Let’s be honest here. Nobody is too busy to call or chat or visit.
It is not about time. It is really about thoughtfulness.
If you are his priority, he will not always find an excuse for not calling or chatting or visiting.
It is even worse when he claims that he is not the calling, chatting or visiting type, even though he is doing it for other people. 🤦🏽♂️
- HE APOLOGIZES BUT NEVER ADJUSTS: What is even worse than a man that never apologizes is a man that apologizes but never adjusts.
He is quick to say he is sorry but before you turn around, he is doing exactly what he apologized for. 😢
He admits that he is wrong but makes no effort to correct anything.
Be careful of a man like this.
Stay away from him.
He is a great disaster waiting to happen later in marriage.
- HE ONLY CALLS YOU WHENEVER HE NEEDS SEX: I believe and teach that sex is a healthy part of a relationship for mature singles.
Same way a moderate amount of sugar is needed by the body from time to time.
But…
When your primary focus is sugar every time, your health will go up in flames! 🔥
If the only time he calls you is when he needs to fuck, then his motives are clear.
You are only good for his penis, not his future.
- HE HITS YOU: Whenever any form of physical abuse is involved, there is no negotiation.
PATTERNS have a funny way of repeating themselves later in marriage.
I don’t care if he apologizes.
You shouldn’t care how sorry he behaves later.
A black eye today can become a damaged kidney or broken bone tomorrow!
If a man hits you for whatever reason, you walk away immediately.
No second chances.
You want to give him a second chance to kill you? 🤷🏽♂️
No negotiations!
And no, he will never change. It will happen again. And again. And yet again if you don’t walk away.
Destructive PATTERNS always repeat themselves later in marriage.
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